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I love this man and know he loves me, but I want security. Two years seems like a long time for someone to be kept in limbo and not know where they stand in a relationship.
Your man needs to be upfront with you and tell you what he intends to do about his marriage and where your relationship is going.
We discussed this before we began our relationship and he said he would marry me as his second wife.
However, I felt like he was intimidated by my ambitions. The second guy is also in his mid-thirties and I have been seeing him for three months now. He is nice to me and not intimidated by my ambitions, but I don't feel like I can be myself around him.
My main concern is whether we have a future together.
It has only been three months of dating, which is not enough to enable you to make a wise decision.Love just ain’t at all easy – it takes constant work, dedication, understanding, intelligence, compassion and courage to make it work. Most of the time married people can expect their spouse to be around, to show up, to be a part of the relationship now and in the future.I’ve heard it over and over again from so many deluded people that “this time it’s different,” and “he really loves me more than his wife,” and “he’s going to divorce her and be with me.” Choose your own version of the delusion. “For better or worse” does mean something, and even unhappy married people usually feel like their marriage is worth fighting for on some level. Sure, maybe he’s keeping you around in case option number one doesn’t work out. So be careful what you expect, as you may be let down. I mean, technically, even married people have no absolute guarantees. People actually do stop loving each other and separate sometimes. Whatever you are, you are, at best, his number two option. If he’s just gotten out of a bad relationship, one that suffocated him or stymied him or depressed or angered him, he isn’t likely to be immediately looking for more of the same level of commitment.
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We fight about this all the time, but I’m afraid to speak to our families about it because we’re not married so I don’t have a leg to stand on.