And you won’t settle for less than that from now on. If you’ve gone from one bad relationship to the next, and never allowed yourself time to think and breathe on your own – please take a time out.There’s only so much abuse, pain and total s**t one person can take before it all blows up in your face, and you have a relationship epiphany. Because once you do, you will see that it’s not anywhere near as scary as you thought it would be.
However it is unlikely to be in the same state in which it entered.Who of course, turned out to be Some people are lucky enough to meet the love of their life when they’re still in High School and end up marrying them, and living a real life happy ever after.Some people have the privilege of falling in love for the first time, and never falling back out again.attitude can only last so long before it starts to wear thin. And you’d started to believe that guys like this don’t exist. It’s a painful realization, I know, but once you see this, you won’t continue to go after guys who need fixing. The important thing is that you learn from those mistakes so that you don’t end up repeating them over and over again. And maybe you allowed yourself to love him against your better judgment. When a relationship ends, no matter how great or dysfunctional it was, it’s a sad feeling. But once you’ve had time to look back and reflect, you will see that was never meant for you in the first place. Maybe he’ll have grown up, and maybe he’ll want to be a better man. Even if we like to believe we’re less vain and egotistic than the rest, it’s highly likely we’re more self-obsessed than we realize.When someone is treating you or has treated you, like complete garbage, you will be at your very lowest. Along comes the nice guy, who gives you the most unexpected and heartfelt compliments, who says what he means and means what he says, who treats you like a Queen. You’ll quickly be able to see that they’re not going to be able to love you the way that you want and need to be loved. Even if they were a terrible person, somewhere along the line you developed feelings for them. But don’t allow yourself to ponder about any of those things. That’s why it’s important not to take other people’s actions personally.